So mother and I got to talking one day and she started talking about Lyfe Jennings new song “Statistics 101.” Of course, I was like “mom, what do you know about Lyfe Jennings?” So we continued talking about it and she asked if I actually listened to words he was saying. I said kind of, and she told me to sit and listen to every word he says. I did, and all I can say is, it is the truth and I’m glad a man took time to tell the truth.
Honestly, he put it out there what a woman should not do if she plans on finding a real man to settle down with. For those of you who do not know what I’m talking about I will tell you the rules.
Don’t be a booty call
If he don’t respect you girl he gon forget you girl
If he’s in a relationship
If he will cheat on her that means he will cheat on you
Tell him that you’re celibate
And if he wants some of your goodies he gon have to work for it
Be the person you wanna find
Don’t be a nickel out here lookin’ for a dime
It sounds really blunt but it’s true and he put it out there. All I can say is, know your worth, and be completely real about it. Make him come to you, and make him earn the honor of being with you. Be a queen. And my Rule #5, something I just learned (Thanks national board :-)) is don’t settle for less than you deserve.