You are a good catch—why aren’t you in a relationship?

Dating can be a difficult thing especially when you know what you want, know what you don’t want, and you are sure about what you cannot deal with. The options are extremely slim, but at least there is a chance for you to be able to be HAPPY. Happy because you can be straight forward with your guidelines and it’s either stay or go, because at this point everyone is clear on expectations. It’s not being too pushy; it’s just being self-assured and honest.
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Relationship Woes: It’s His Loss… or is it?

Is it really? We often use these words to cheer up a woman who has been dumped or rejected by someone she is interested in, but I have come to wonder if this is even a valid form of comfort. First, what exactly did he lose? I’m sure you’re a wonderful specimen of a woman who never does anything wrong (and if you do there is a perfectly good explanation for it), but he let you go because he didn’t want you. So if he didn’t want you, what exactly did he lose? Look at it from the other perspective. Has there ever been a guy that kept pursuing you that you weren’t interested in? Once they finally got the hint and left you alone, did you experience a sense of loss… or relief? My point is not to make you feel worse; my point is to encourage you to heal from the inside.
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Website Relaunch!

The National Board of the Black Female Development Circle, Inc. is pleased to present a new design for the national website! As we bridge the gap between technological innovation and the historical significance of being the champion for the cause of women, we are excited to announce that we will become a more vocal proponent of womens’ concerns. Be sure to check back often as we blog regularly about issues pertaining to our members and women in society.

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